SEEK AND SPARK

  I’ve been thinking a lot lately about leadership: what it is, what it should be, and why, so often, we settle for so little. From personal experiences in the workplace to national frustrations with Kenya’s political class, the recurring theme is that we have made leadership about power and not purpose and we are now paying the price. It appears there is a serious leadership crisis not just in the top echelons of our country, but also in our workplaces, families, places of worship, and communities. Every conversation I’ve had recently with friends and acquaintances has led me to believe that most people are caught in the reality of dealing with leaders whose manners and character are questionable! But this isn’t about bashing leaders or pointing an accusing finger but about raising our consciousness to this issue. I’d like us to reflect and to ask ourselves deeper questions about the kind of leadership we have come to accept and the kind that we truly deserve. Years ago, I h...

Two months ago, I turned 40! Looking back, I always imagined turning this milestone age would be epic —full of glamor and celebration —but that was not to be. Instead, this birthday was quiet, full of reflection, and overflowing with silent gratitude . And honestly? I wouldn’t have had it any other way. If I really think about it, 39 was my milestone year —the year I consciously prepared for my forties. I envisioned the kind of person I wanted to be in this new decade and started making the necessary shifts to show up fully and intentionally . I wanted to arrive on the 4th floor quietly, peacefully, and on my own terms . So, I adjusted, I let go, I realigned. Now, 40 is about taking stock of the past, appreciating the present, and curating a future that generations after me will be proud of . And as I have been reflecting on this journey, here are 40 lessons that stand out—some learned the hard way, others whispered gently through experience, and a few still unfolding. Buckle up! F...